On Saturday 8th December, I was lucky enough to
go along to a deaf club as my friend, one of their members, was holding a
Cancer Awareness Day. She has been diagnosed with the disease and will be
having her hysterectomy in January.
Speaking in public doesn’t bother me in the least; I got
very used to it in the pub trade, both in my pubs and at district meetings.
This would be slightly different as I knew I would most probably be the only
hearing person at the club but there were to be interpreters there.
Before the meeting, my friend happened to pass a comment
that she was sorry that the MacMillan nurse who had been due to attend wasn’t
going to be there as people in the health professions needed to know about the
lack of information that is available to the deaf. I realised as the day went
on just exactly what she meant.
I stood up and started to share my experience of womb cancer
with the club members. At the end, I just said that if anyone had any
questions....... but I didn’t get to finish my sentence as so many hands went
up in the air!
This is when I realised how many deaf women are left in the
dark as to health issues. I was there to specifically talk about womb cancer
but the questions I was asked covered a whole lot more. I was quite shocked and
upset that these women knew so little about their bodies and their reproductive
organs. One lady who had had a hysterectomy at a young age had had an ovary
left behind but it hadn’t been explained to her about menopause; another lady
asked me if she could still get womb cancer even though she had had a
hysterectomy. And all because the time isn’t taken to ensure that deaf people
completely understand their illnesses and treatments.
I sat and spoke to the interpreters at length afterwards to
try to find out more about the difficulties the deaf have. There are many. For
one, hospital appointments are too short and, in many cases, the interpreters
aren’t fully qualified so have a very limited vocabulary to pass on the
information. If a deaf woman gets the diagnosis of cancer, where can she go for
help? She certainly can’t pick up a phone, which is what I did. Also, for many
deaf, British Sign Language is their first language with English being the
second. These languages are totally different so to start researching on the internet
for many deaf people is a non-starter too as the language used is just too
confusing. My friend backed this up by saying how isolated she felt when she
got her diagnosis.
I prefer to hear first hand of horror stories and I don’t
spread rumours but a story one of the interpreters told me horrified me. A
young deaf woman was ‘sold’ the idea of a hysterectomy as just ‘periods stop’
and agreed to the operation without fully knowing what it entailed. She got
married a couple of years later and was absolutely heartbroken when she learned
that she wouldn’t be able to bear children. The operation was obviously not
explained fully to her. And it also meant that she was kept in the dark while
she was in hospital. Can you imagine what it must feel like? To have everyone
around you talking about you but not able to understand? Horrendous isn’t it?
And I have no reason to disbelieve the interpreter as she is passionate about
her job.
I sat for a long time chatting, with the help of the
interpreters, with some of the women. Two women told me about some unusual
symptoms they have been having with their periods and I advised them both that
if they were worried, which obviously they were, then for their own peace of
minds they should go to see their doctors. We were also talking about the
number of women who get diagnosed with womb cancer in the UK every year (over
7,000 and rising) which the women found startling as they realised that my
friend was probably not the only deaf woman in the country to get this
diagnosis.
I had to leave around 2pm as I needed to get back to London
but before I went, the women thanked me for going to see them and said they
found everything very useful. They have asked for something similar in the new
year and I think it would be useful to have someone from one of the ovarian
cancer charities along as well to answer their queries.
I have also decided to run something similar in London for
deaf people having learned a lot from that session and will be working on that
in the next month or so. If the women I met that day have so many fears and
questions, then probably every deaf woman in the country has the same. And I
will be writing letters to anyone and everyone that will listen in an effort to
try to help the deaf going forward and I will invite them to the session I run
so that they can see the difficulties the deaf encounter first hand. This is
something that needs to be changed urgently!
Debbie Vince.
Hi, Debbie - This is just shocking; how dreadful that there is a section of society who can't access proper health care because there aren't enough resources to provide signing assistance at doctors appointments. Well done to you for going along to the meeting in Derby.
ReplyDeleteMargaret
I'm with you on this one Margaret - just sharing this blog article now. Rose x
ReplyDelete